Imagine me standing in the middle of a stadium holding a megaphone speaking to an audience of women. Yes, I am fabulously dressed of course. And Scene……….If he’s wack, tell him!!!!
Ladies, why are many of you still subjecting yourselves to being unfulfilled by a man? I don’t care if he’s your husband, a jump-off or an occasional occupant in your rotation (I call them My Flow), if you find your eyes staring at him with contempt; tell him!!!!
I have come across so many women who will repeatedly sit, grin and tolerate uncomfortable situations and I’m sick of it. Letting their guards down and getting advice from “their girls,” they hope to be provided with direction. Puhleeze, if a man were to sit amongst a group of women sharing in female banter, he might need a therapist, a life coach and updated manuals on how to fulfill his woman. NO, we don’t want a damn threesome so stop asking! NO, we don’t like it when you pound on us like a drill that has no focus or direction; it’s just all over the place. NO, we don’t like it when you go down and act as if you only want a little taste instead of eating the entire meal. NO, we don’t like it when you go right for the bull’s-eye without paying attention to the beautifully designed map that leads to project orgasm.
I think women and men need to hone-in on their intimate skills every so often; something like a refresher course. We do it for our jobs, why not for our relationships. Ladies, stop acting like watching an x-rated movie, taking a pole dancing class, buying a few toys and exploring your own bodies is taboo. Own and feel comfortable with your Self before you start demanding someone else to fulfill your intimate needs. Stop acting like Suzie Homemaker from 1920 and get with it. I’m not promoting that women should be walking sex kittens, not at all. I still believe a woman should be a lady in the streets and a sultry kitten in the bed. Meow.
So ladies, do yourselves a favor. KNOW what it is that YOU want, FIND out how to get that pleasure and then GET IT by Telling Him What You Want! A man who wants to be with you will do everything in his power to make sure he delivers. Make a game out of it and show him if he’s a little reluctant. We all know how fragile the male ego is. Hmph.