Who Pays on a Date? He Does!!!!!

You’re sitting at a fine restaurant in your 5-inch heels and your outfit is absolutely to-die-for. The conversation between you and your date is flowing like silk and then the waiter comes. It’s as if the record has scratched when the waiter’s eyes play tennis as he figures out whom to give the check to. And Scene…….

You would be a fool to get caught up in such a trivial dilemma of wondering who should pay for the date. Ladies, you better cross those delicately sculptured legs of yours and without batting an eye anticipate him to pick up the check. I believe a man should always be a man and one of the requirements of a man is picking up the check. I know tons of men would beg to differ and that’s perfectly fine; those are the cheap men I won’t be dating. If a man truly likes you and enjoys your company, he will pay. This modern day role reversal where it is implied that women pay is absurd and probably created by some broke ass man who is trying to salvage his ego. Ladies, don’t be fooled.  And just to make myself clear; even if you go out as friends…..he still pays.

Some may interpret my stance as having gold-digger tendencies and I could care less! A man should be able to provide for his woman. Going out on dates is sort of like a series of auditions. The dates don’t have to be fancy and opulent, but it should be very tasteful. Imagine going out on a date and the man asks the woman to pay the bill, contribute to the bill or even leave a tip. That is just tacky. And if he doesn’t have enough money to pay the entire bill and leave a tip, leave his broke ass sitting there by his lonesome as you pick up your purse and walk out of the restaurant and out of his life.  Yeah, I said it!!

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