Imagine me standing in the middle of a stadium holding a megaphone speaking to an audience of women. Yes, I am fabulously dressed of course. And Scene……….If he’s wack, tell him!!!!
Ladies, why are many of you still subjecting yourselves to being unfulfilled by a man? I don’t care if he’s your husband, a jump-off or an occasional occupant in your rotation (I call them My Flow), if you find your eyes staring at him with contempt; tell him!!!!
I have come across so many women who will repeatedly sit, grin and tolerate uncomfortable situations and I’m sick of it. Letting their guards down and getting advice from “their girls,” they hope to be provided with direction. Puhleeze, if a man were to sit amongst a group of women sharing in female banter, he might need a therapist, a life coach and updated manuals on how to fulfill his woman. NO, we don’t want a damn threesome so stop asking! NO, we don’t like it when you pound on us like a drill that has no focus or direction; it’s just all over the place. NO, we don’t like it when you go down and act as if you only want a little taste instead of eating the entire meal. NO, we don’t like it when you go right for the bull’s-eye without paying attention to the beautifully designed map that leads to project orgasm.
I think women and men need to hone-in on their intimate skills every so often; something like a refresher course. We do it for our jobs, why not for our relationships. Ladies, stop acting like watching an x-rated movie, taking a pole dancing class, buying a few toys and exploring your own bodies is taboo. Own and feel comfortable with your Self before you start demanding someone else to fulfill your intimate needs. Stop acting like Suzie Homemaker from 1920 and get with it. I’m not promoting that women should be walking sex kittens, not at all. I still believe a woman should be a lady in the streets and a sultry kitten in the bed. Meow.
So ladies, do yourselves a favor. KNOW what it is that YOU want, FIND out how to get that pleasure and then GET IT by Telling Him What You Want! A man who wants to be with you will do everything in his power to make sure he delivers. Make a game out of it and show him if he’s a little reluctant. We all know how fragile the male ego is. Hmph.
(Speaking from a MAN's Perspective)
ReplyDeleteYeah...., we want that Lady in the Streets & A Freak in the Sheets, but when it comes down to doing the real thing...., us men have this tendacy to think that we know what she wants & desires in bed. Us men can simply try to become 'mind-readers' like we know what she wants & desires if we want to...., but it will simply just make it unfulfilling & unsatisfying because of men also not doing these two things: ASKING & BEING SPONTANEOUS!!!! To me, there is nothing wrong with being spontaneous & adventurous in the bedroom or anywhere (whenever there is an opportunity...., get it in while it is there at that point in time; get out of that comfortable shell.) That is the time for both parties to cut up, let your hair hang down, & get loose. For example...., lets say if me & my girl was to go outside by the pool, kickin' it & chillin'. Then all of the sudden...., the mood gets us going & it is strong like a uncontrollable inferno: HELL YES I AM GOIN' IN!!!! Goin' in so good that there is someone watchin' like 'damn...., he is tearin' that ass up; they are really goin' in on it'. (He/she better be taking notes on how to keep the fire burning, lol.) When it comes down to asking...., I don't want her to ask me. If I say these 10 simple words: "DO YOU, LET YOUR HAIR HANG DOWN & GET LOOSE", I would want her to show me more than tell me because I desire it to be the element of surprise; shock the living hell out of me & blow my mind with all the trick of the trade!!!! Just saying those 10 words is enough asking for me because if my girl was to go down on me...., yes I am returning the favor, if she wants to have total control...., I will give it to her. This is not even me or her asking...., it is just letting her do her & being spontaneous!!!!
Because if she knows what she wants & desires in bed...., I don't have to ask nor does she.... like the Nike commercial: JUST DO IT!!!!
This is so true. It seems that the ladies just settle because they feel that "this man" is the best that they can do. It takes a real man to please a lady right and if he ain't game (yes I said ain't) then step up yours.......It's up to use ladies...after all, we control the cookies (compliments of Act Like a Lady, Think Like A Man)...bake the cookies to your desired texture and serve as hot as you like!
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