In today’s day-and-age, communication between a man and woman who are courting (remember that term?) has changed drastically. Remember the day when you would be on the phone for hours talking to your boo and at the end of the conversation, you would say, “Hang up” and he’d say, “No you hang up first”? Those days are long gone with jherri curls, Lee jeans and Lotto sneakers. Yeah I took it back. Now, texting has become the new normal making it harder to decipher if he’s really into you. Here are some scenarios to think about before you text him back. Or not. And scene……..
Scenario #1: YOU text him and HE responds 6-12 hours later.
Answer: Yes, text him back.
Why?: It could be that he’s really not feeling you or maybe he was just busy. However, don’t act
like some eager teenager when responding. Fall back and wait a few hours too. I don’t consider this
as game playing: it's simply giving him what he gave you.....time lapse.
Scenario #2: YOU text him and HE responds more than 24 hours later.
Answer: No! Don’t you lift one pretty manicured finger.
Why?: Ms. Honey, he’s not feeling you! Don’t even fall for the “I was busy” crap. He only returned
your text to be polite and keep you in his rotation.
Scenario #3: YOU ask him a question and HE doesn’t answer it when responding.
Answer: No!
Why?: This means he isn’t even remotely interested in keeping the conversation going. His mind is
elsewhere and yours should be at this point too.
Scenario #4: YOU call and HE texts you back.
Answer: Yes.
Why?: He may just be a little shy. Just remind him that you would rather hear his voice.
So there you have it ladies. No need to be in a quandary about this ever-changing “getting to know
a man’s” lifestyle. All of the signs are there. Lead with your brain and not with your emotions.
SMOOCHES!
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