Feel Like Cheating?

Ok, you’re in a relationship and you love him dearly. There are days when the very thought of him makes you smile followed by the urge to call him on the phone even though you just spoke an hour ago. Then there are days when you wonder if the grass is greener on the other side; if you can cheat without getting caught. If Luther Vandross was right when he sang, “If only for one night?” And scene……….

I know I’m not the only one who has ever thought of cheating on her partner. If I am, oh well; at least I’m not ashamed to admit it. There are many reasons why women contemplate cheating on her mate. If he’s good to her or if she wants to “accidentally” push him into traffic, a woman’s rationale often remains the same. Here are a few reasons why women cheat:

1.      The other man listens – Women swoon and get moist whenever a man takes the time to genuinely listen to her. It’s like the green pill in the Matrix. We’ve chosen right and nothing could be further from wrong.

2.      He’s rich – A woman loves a man who can provide for her. She goes into a situation of accepting money from a man knowing she may not initially have to drop her panties, but if she plays her cards right the game will last long enough for her to get money to solve some of her financial woes.

3.      He’s handsome – Sometimes lust will get the best of us. Men aren’t the only ones who are visual beings. Yeah, there are times when we just want to taste the forbidden fruit too.

4.      He’s younger – When women get to a certain age having a younger man hit on her makes her feel youthful again. She wants to prove she can still make a man’s toes curl and scream out her name in sheer bliss before she sends him home to his rap CD’s and video games.

At the end of the day, I find myself and other women to be very loyal to their man. Although we may think of cheating, we seldom do. Trust, every time we walk down the street, stare aimlessly on the train, smirk at the television or fidget when reading a magazine we are thinking about a meaningless rendezvous. Those thoughts only last for a few minutes out of the day because when all is said and done, we return back to the one we love….our man!

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